Examining our contribution to suffering and pain.

    It is easier to feel victimized than to confront ways through which we cause pain and suffering to ourselves and others. At least for someone aware of themselves, there comes a long with self-awareness a level of responsibility. The law of cause and effect as stipulated by the hermetic principles doesn’t take into […]

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Emotional intelligence as a tool for healing.

  Most of us are cultured into avoidance of anything and everything unpleasant. Unpleasant is ¬†uncomfortable. We are cultured into action and reaction instead of allowing whatever emotional states we are in to rest in that place. Life however has other plan for us. Whether we like it or not we have to look at […]

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Finding my way back into the world after self-imposed hermitage.

    The world left me behind in July last year. I crumbled and crashed like small little cookies pressed against each other in a backpack. Solitude took me. My tears drowned in depression and life fell apart. I did not want my life as it was. Something was happenings. A rebirth and deprogramming. A […]

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Ending victimhood

Ohh boy! Those were the days! I ¬†look back and wonder if it was necessary for me to be stuck in that place and I realize I couldn’t have found myself without being lost. If anything, I learnt to be patient with others still stuck in a quagmire of self-sabotage. Energy moves and sometimes it […]

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Embracing the seasons of life.

  We have a tendency to be so upset and deeply thrown out of balance by events we deem negative and difficult. Rightly so. It’s not easy. However we must cultivate enough emotional intelligence when dealing with difficult processes in life. Again I understand how difficult it is and perharps I am the last person […]

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When we expect people to change for us.

Our pop-culture and conditioning seems pretty cool in movies and television but in real life it’s so dysfunctional. When it comes to different forms of relationships we display different levels of dysfunction. I have been in that place myself without self-awareness. When people act in a way that displeases me and I feel they need […]

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A day in total silence

    So we are doing this now. A day of total silence with no distractions. No phone, no TV and not a single word uttered. I don’t know what I want to achieve with this but I certainly want to try it and see what will come up. I am scared of being bored […]

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My astrological birth chart and finally returning back to myself.

I have always felt lost. I have never belonged anywhere. To me the sense of belonging has meant nothing but a fleeting desire to move and change almost too often than I would like to admit.   As a girl child I knew right away that certain cultural expectations of me would never happen. I […]

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Online relationship auditions

      I have quit online dating for good. Mostly because I am much more understanding of myself right now, have no time to waste perusing through and swiping left all day and I am getting new insights about love and relationships as my belief systems change and I regain back my divine masculine […]

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