New phone who dis? Dealing with ghosting.

        We have ghosted  and we have been ghosted. Both are two sides of the same coin just different situations. When I ghost someone I feel justified by my actions. I feel total clarity and the need to get someone off of me. Whatever the reasons there maybe, the justification feels great. […]

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I was born to wander

I used to think that I was balanced and that I would only need to find the right things, the right people, the right place and I would be fine.  Back then, I was sure that home waited for me somewhere. Somewhere magical. Yet I still wander. I think I was born to wander. I […]

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Letting go and letting God.

    “Life and love generate effort, but effort will not generate them. Faith in life, in other people, and in oneself is the attitude of allowing the sponteneous to be sponteneous,  in it’s own way and it’s own time”  Alan Watts I talk of surrender and allowing the natural process to occur yet I […]

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Shifting belief systems towards soul expansion.

  Whether we recognize it or not our souls expands as we navigate through life. As we grow, experience life, take in our own versions of identity, we expand. Shifting belief systems is something we don’t do. It happens. We become wiser if we choose to appreciate it,  if we take more risks, if we […]

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Does positive thinking really shape your life?

    As I discover my spiritual journey I have to check myself all the time. I have learnt that I possibly can’t rely on anyone else’s interpretations of anything. Positive thinking is great but it’s not working for me. I have been informed of several reasons it doesn’t work for just me. One reason […]

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Gratitude for toxic people?

  I never thought I would be able to appreciate the the role played by the so called belief systems, influencing cultures and toxic people in my life until today. After contempleting deeply how the past few months rather past year has been, questioned my emotions and their validity and my own ability to shift […]

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Breathing life in and out.

  I want to desperately believe that one day, many years from now that observing life without exerting any force to it was the best choice I ever made. Right now,  it feels like very little is happening and that little is enough. You see I decided to go back to school, eat way less, […]

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Cutting energetic codes and inviting bliss

  As a Libra woman, I am all for justice. I want to treat others fairly and expect the same of them. It is said we are indicisive. I will have to disagree. We might take a while to come to that place because we are afraid of confrontations but once we are at peace […]

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The stupid narc

  There are those people, situations, triggers that expose wounds. Then there are narcissists ripping through every wound and opening them up not because they know you( some do) but because that’s what they do. They find pleasure in otherwise useless things that normal people with empathy do not enjoy. At the beginning they listen […]

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Healing internal wounds

  I used to be so angry. I was frustrated with life and with myself. Internally I was wallowing in raging emotions, broken promises, fears, insecurities, loneliness and to say the least my life was chaotic. It’s human. We are here to face ourselves, find our way back to us and God, heal ourselves and […]

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