Embracing the seasons of life.

  We have a tendency to be so upset and deeply thrown out of balance by events we deem negative and difficult. Rightly so. It’s not easy. However we must cultivate enough emotional intelligence when dealing with difficult processes in life. Again I understand how difficult it is and perharps I am the last person […]

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When we expect people to change for us.

Our pop-culture and conditioning seems pretty cool in movies and television but in real life it’s so dysfunctional. When it comes to different forms of relationships we display different levels of dysfunction. I have been in that place myself without self-awareness. When people act in a way that displeases me and I feel they need […]

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A day in total silence

    So we are doing this now. A day of total silence with no distractions. No phone, no TV and not a single word uttered. I don’t know what I want to achieve with this but I certainly want to try it and see what will come up. I am scared of being bored […]

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My astrological birth chart and finally returning back to myself.

I have always felt lost. I have never belonged anywhere. To me the sense of belonging has meant nothing but a fleeting desire to move and change almost too often than I would like to admit.   As a girl child I knew right away that certain cultural expectations of me would never happen. I […]

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Online relationship auditions

      I have quit online dating for good. Mostly because I am much more understanding of myself right now, have no time to waste perusing through and swiping left all day and I am getting new insights about love and relationships as my belief systems change and I regain back my divine masculine […]

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New phone who dis? Dealing with ghosting.

        We have ghosted  and we have been ghosted. Both are two sides of the same coin just different situations. When I ghost someone I feel justified by my actions. I feel total clarity and the need to get someone off of me. Whatever the reasons there maybe, the justification feels great. […]

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I was born to wander

I used to think that I was balanced and that I would only need to find the right things, the right people, the right place and I would be fine.  Back then, I was sure that home waited for me somewhere. Somewhere magical. Yet I still wander. I think I was born to wander. I […]

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Letting go and letting God.

    “Life and love generate effort, but effort will not generate them. Faith in life, in other people, and in oneself is the attitude of allowing the sponteneous to be sponteneous,  in it’s own way and it’s own time”  Alan Watts I talk of surrender and allowing the natural process to occur yet I […]

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Shifting belief systems towards soul expansion.

  Whether we recognize it or not our souls expands as we navigate through life. As we grow, experience life, take in our own versions of identity, we expand. Shifting belief systems is something we don’t do. It happens. We become wiser if we choose to appreciate it,  if we take more risks, if we […]

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Does positive thinking really shape your life?

    As I discover my spiritual journey I have to check myself all the time. I have learnt that I possibly can’t rely on anyone else’s interpretations of anything. Positive thinking is great but it’s not working for me. I have been informed of several reasons it doesn’t work for just me. One reason […]

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